Why Do You Need To Keep Your Strategy Close To Your Chest?

    My Dad once said: "Yourself will only be that one person whom you can trust, no more no less"

so he is indirectly saying that "You should trust no one"

   I really don't believe it because I'm basically one of those persons who trust most of the people around and it doesn't come into my mind that people will tend to plan something that might cause me to fall down or drag me backwards. 

   But with the era today and a lot of people with crab mentality start to emerge from different corners of the universe, I must say "Father really knows best"

   Trusting most of the people whom you learned to love and be concerned about was not as safe as I used think as it was. As I go through a lot of struggle, I have learned it the hard way that not all who appears to be harmless is indeed harmless. I've been a person who is goal-oriented and is directed towards achieving success but not to the point of dragging other people down and watch them being clueless and dumb just to let myself move forward. I am one of those who wants everybody to succeed on their own craft yet lately, I was able to see with open eyes the bitter reality that no matter how good and sincere you are as a person there will always be people who wouldn't want you to move forward and chase after your dreams. They would rather love to know that you are static and was left behind. 

   With a lot of eye openers, I have learned that not all people who mind to ask were really concerned but they just wanted to be updated and be on track if they are ahead of you. I wasn't grown to be competitive but I was able to realize that people around will just consider it as something as prestige as having a business where you need to compete no matter what is at stake, they will just pull you down. 

  You just can't trust anybody, may it be as close as a sibling or a friend, you just got to learn that there are some things that should only be between you and yourself alone. 

   If it has nothing to do with anybody, then you might just want to keep it to yourself, it is not being selfish or greedy but you are just being extra careful. It is not about the art of caring less but more of the art of choosing the right people whom is willing to do the same thing to you and not those who would just left you hanging, keep information that you need to be informed with but had chosen to just see you waiting and clueless and doing the effort for them to move forward. 

I've known a lot of people but little by little I'm starting to separate those who were true and from those whom I don't know what should I call them, "plain consumers"? I think.

People who ask a lot of questions about you as if like they care

People whom you are willing to cross oceans but never mind to jump a puddle for you.

You just got to guard your heart from these beings and be extra mindful. 

  Crab Mentality is as fast as an airborne virus spreading all over and you just got to safeguard yourself and don't let anybody manage to have an opportunity to drag you down and enjoy watching your downfall.

With a lot of heartbreaking instance, I just learned to:

"TRUST NO ONE & KEEP MY STRATEGIES CLOSE TO MY CHEST"