LET THERE BE SOMEONE LIKE

Let there be someone who is fairly ideal... We don't choose the person that we are going to love or fall in love with but there will always be one point or another that you'll say that "How I wish that I could have one that is... like this and like that and so forth" Life and Love were not made to be filled with standards or idea of being ideal but if I get the chance to be blessed with someone then...

Let there be someone like...

1.) Pong... (Coco Martin from You're my Boss 2015 movie)

Let there be someone who still has the values of being a true blooded gentleman who will still open door/s for you. Quite simple gesture right? but it's definitely a challenge to find one who manage to do that nowadays.

Let there be someone who will look right through your eyes with complete sincerity especially when you are talking or saying something. It's hard to find someone who actually cares and dares to listen and at the same time focuses on what you are trying to say. Moreover, you can never go wrong with the eyes because as what they say "eyes are the windows of the soul".

Let there be someone who is willing to celebrate victory with you. Let there be someone who sees you as a confidant who is worthy of shared happiness, someone who recognizes you as an inspiration and the reason behind his every achievement.

Let there be someone who still looks and stares at you like you were the prettiest and most amazing person even though you were at your craziest and most embarrassing form.

Let there be someone who tolerates you being crazy at times and sings with his heart out when you feel like singing and whether you sing the song slightly off key, it definitely won't matter because he loves and will continually love you anyway, despite of being off key sometimes or most of the time, for him, you will always be the greatest singer. Let there be someone who will accept you as you are including your flaws and you being "sintunado" or out of tune.

Let there be someone who will listen to you when you're nearly at the point of crying and bursting out. Someone, who is willing to spend the rest of his time listening to your old drama and tiring stories. Girls, definitely has a lot of things to say, a lot of things running on their mind, so let there be someone who manages to be a "shock absorber" for the mean time that she can't compassionately keep it altogether . 

Let there be someone who won't let you feel the feeling of being "seenzoned", Let there be someone who won't left you hanging and wait for nothing. Every message deserves a reply may it be long or short, the bottom line is every message deserves a damn reply. 

Let there be someone who will wholeheartedly tell you the truth even it will crush you down into pieces. Honesty will always be a key. I'd rather be hurt with the truth than be happy with a lie. That's how it goes. At some point there are views and things that we refuse to see and realize but we have to include it into our own understanding may it be in our favor or not in our favor, let there be someone who will give you the ability to see and accept the things that you primarily refused to see and understand. Let there be someone who will bring you both sides of the reality because there's more than what the eyes can see, the heart can love and the brain can understand.

Let there be someone who is fiercely and bravely honest to tell you who you really are in his eyes yet accepts all these flaws wholeheartedly. 

Let there be someone who will rushed to the store just to be able to send you a message. Honestly, I admire guys who does the extra effort may it be big or small effort, still it's a counted effort. As what I already said, any forms of message deserves a reply. 

Let there be someone who is thoughtful enough to leave a note. Morning messages through phone and through the use of technology is sweet but morning notes with the flower gesture is sweeter. :)

Let there be someone who is willing to collect memories with you. Photograph definitely says a thousand words.

Let there be someone who sees you as if you're the last gem on earth. Girls, just wanted to feel special at some point.

Let there be someone who will be there by your side in every sunrise and sunsets of your life.

Let there be someone to hold onto during different seasons

Let there be someone who patiently waits. Waiting is a double edged sword kind of thing, it's a risk that could all end up into uselessness and disappointment but who wouldn't be moved by someone who takes the risk to wait like waiting for a rain in a drought. Let there be someone who is brave enough to swim the deepest sea and climb the highest mountain.

Let there be someone with this kind of mindset, someone who is selfless. Selflessness becomes the basis of a relationship when a person truly cares about you and they get pleasure from the way they make you feel rather than the way you make them feel. 

Let there be someone who offers you a shoulder to lean on whenever you are afraid or feeling blue. Let there be someone who becomes a home, someone to come running after to when the not so perfect times come crushing down. 

Let there be someone to have beside you whenever you go north, south, east or west or in any corner of the universe, someone who holds you as you travel every country, every city, someone to be happy with on a long trip or journey, someone to go on adventures with, explore and leave your comfort zones together. Let there be someone to be with while searching for a lot of things that were hidden, someone to be with while going and looking behind the ranges. Let there be someone who is willing to take the challenge, someone who is willing to go on an adventure with you, may it be hiking the highest mountain or swimming the deepest sea. Someone who is willing to hold your hand as you go along your chosen journey.

Let there be someone like....

2.) Daryl Ong (From Bridges of Love episode)

Let there be someone who will serenade you, someone who will sing songs of love for you. Who wouldn't want to be serenaded right? it's rare to find a guy serenading someone nowadays, serenading has become part of the Filipino tradition that slowly being forgotten by the younger generations nowadays. But for me, it is one of the most sincere form of showing affection and appreciation. 

Let there be someone like...

3.) Gabby (Marlo Mortel from Oh My G)

Ok, Ok... I must admit, song composition is a plus plus point, you can never get away with a guy who uses too much creativity and innovation to catch your attention and honestly, I like his song here. :)

There's a lot of people who were able to express their feelings much better through songs. And I bet, you'll be interested in listening more often with what he actually wants to say if its with rhythm and harmony.

Let there be someone who won't let you carry the anxiety alone, someone who won't let you sing the song and dance the music alone. Let there be someone who will always be there to support and push you higher, someone who will make you feel at ease in every indefinite circumstances. Let there be someone who will simply say "it's okay" even you, yourself is not quite sure if it really is okay.

Let there be someone like...

3.) Harry (Manolo Pedrosa from Oh My G)

(Well, my huge crush with Manolo Pedrosa and his character in Oh My G was one of the few confessions that I have to make. )

Let there be someone who is not afraid to express his feelings. Let there be someone who is real and won't hold back, someone who feels safe to take the risk with you and sees you as a safe shore and comfort zone. Let there be someone who just feels the need to be true to himself and to his feelings, someone who is brave enough to express despite a lot of uncertainties. 

Let there be someone who eventually got tired of playing games and sees you as the "game-changer". Let there be someone who had chosen to change and be the right guy, the better version of himself because of you.

Let there be someone who is not afraid to say sorry. Someone who values you more than any kind of pride that a person will tend to feel.  Someone who won't consider apologizing as a factor that will make him less of a man because you are more important than his ego. Apology is not a sign of a weak character because in fact, it requires great strength. 

Let there be someone who will cancel events just to have time to listen with all these things running through your head. A lot of guys easily gets tired of listening with the same stuff over and over again so it's a blessing to have someone who takes time to listen, takes time to let you be yourself without the threat of him leaving. Listening is one of the most sincere form of respect. As what Calvin Coolidge says "It takes a great man to be a good listener." Let there be someone who won't just listen with what is being said but will also listen with what is not being said, someone who is able to read between the lines.

Let there be someone who aims to be a better version of himself, someone who tries harder to be someone who is deserving to be with you. 

Let there be someone who sees you as a source of strength to keep going, to keep trying, someone who would prefer you to be around during his struggling times. 

Let there be someone who makes surprise visits, someone who makes it a little bit easier through a tough and busy day. The feeling when someone is making an effort to make you smile is awesome.

Let there be someone who is not afraid to make promises because he is certain that he won't break it. Let there be someone who will ride in with your ideas just for you to be secure even if it is out of his league or beyond his actual belief and norms. 

As what I said, Creativity and Innovation is one of the few ways to a woman's heart. Poetry is another key. Who would still expect a living Shakespeare nowadays right?  Words and feelings expressed in rhymes and through poems could be another form of expressed sincerity.

Let there be someone who is confident enough to show you how much he likes you through a song even though he knows he is not good in singing. I'd rather have the guy who is out of tune but has the courage to show his love through his shortcomings. It will take you a lot of courage and effort to sing your heart out especially if you're not good at it. Let there be someone who goes out of his comfort zone just to catch you. Effort and Courage counts!

Let there be someone who will..

catch you when you fall.. (this is more than just the literal term of fall, this is more acceptable with the emotional definition of falling) fall in love. 

someone who won't let you hit the ground. 

(in tagalog: hindi paasa)

Let there be someone who won't let you handle all your problems alone, let there be someone who is willing to carry even half of the problems and all the burdens that you're going through. Let there be someone who will took the initiative to remove all the pressures that life has to bring. 

Let there be someone who always gets out of his way to make things lighter. Someone who could take an extra effort and an extra mile just to make you smile and give you courage whenever you need it most. Let there be someone who has this kind of humor just to make you feel a little bit out of the depressed zone and a whole lot better. 

Lastly, Let there be someone who is God-centered, someone who will lead and carry you closer to God especially at times that you' re down. Someone who will put God at the center of everything and at the center of between you and him. 

Am I asking too much or Do I sound like really demanding here? Anyway, there are only two important qualities that one should value in a person which is integrity and being God centered and that's enough. Mr. Perfect is far way different from Mr. Right anyway and that person will always be an exception to any kind of idea and reverie that one has. 

It's not about finding the right person in a sea of wrong people, it's in the case of you, making yourself the right person in a vast expanse of wrong people, wrong timings and wrong circumstances. 

[credits: you're my boss | oh my g | bridges of love]

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