Linggo, Hunyo 14, 2015

Prone to be in that "ZONE" for a reason


Have you ever had a friend who happen to be at "risk for fall"?



Well, I'm not talking about what Mr. Webster's trying to tell what the word "fall" is all about, everybody knows that

Fall means:
a :  to descend freely by the force of gravity
b :  to hang freely <her hair falls over her shoulders>
c :  to drop oneself to a lower position <fell to his knees>

<credits to Merriam Webster's dictionary>

But what I'm talking about here is what Mr. Ramon Bautista, Mr. Bob Ong and Mr. Marcelo Santos III were talking about which is more of the emotional fall precaution. 

Under the category of emotion, fall precaution means risk to have deeper and emotional feelings with someone whom you are not sure if he/she has the same feelings with you.



And for the record, I actually have a friend who has constantly been at high risk for emotional fall and prone to be friendzoned not once, not twice but thrice. 

Of all the zones that one could ever be in, friendzone is the most emotionally draining and of all the zones that one could ever think of, friendzone is the most heartbreaking. 


Let's hide the identity of my friend behind the name of "Charles Libron". I've treated him as close as my sibling and considered him as a kuya (older brother) even if I'm 20 days older than him (well, you just got to deal with it because I'm the writer). All through those college years that I knew him and became my duty mate, I have seen his emotional ups and downs. We, together with the rest of the group as well as our favorite ER clinical instructor, Mr. Provido became his number one supporters when it comes to courting the girls who have caught his eyes and his heart off guard. This guy right here also has difficulty in genuinely expressing feelings, it's definitely one of the usual problem, in short "torpe". You know what's wrong with being "torpe"? it's the lack of courage.

Our group has always been the constant adviser and the shock absorber for Libron, because basically he is the only member of our duty group with love problem and the emotional fall precaution and prone to be friendzoned diagnosis. 

He was the quintessential almost complete type of guy but still never had the chance to be out of that zone called "friend zone".


Friend zone is when you see him/her as someone special or more than a friend, nothing less but he/she sees you only as a friend, nothing more. 

That's how unfair this kind of zone is, but people that was always being trapped in this zone were not the below standard type of persons, they were actually the almost complete type of person wrapped with a golden heart. There are just some people who were better to be just your friends, they don't mean to hurt you but they were there for a reason, they were there to prepare you to be the right person for another being who won't let you hit the ground when the time comes that you will fall for the nth time. 

My advice will no longer be "step out of the danger zone" but rather "enter the zone at your own risk"

And if you guys will going to ask what will be my friend's heart soundtrack, here you go, something new from Tj Monterde:



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